
Episode Details
April 25, 2025
37 minutes
- Reevaluating Role Models – Jeremy and Doug reflect on the people they admired growing up—ranging from star athletes to neighborhood father figures—and how those influences have evolved with time and maturity.
- The Influence of Media & Society – The hosts explore how modern media and social platforms shape our idea of success and worth, often distorting what it means to be a genuine role model.
- Personal Growth Through Real-Life Examples – Both hosts open up about finding mentors and inspiration in everyday people—friends, family, and coworkers—who demonstrate integrity, commitment, and emotional intelligence.
- Shaping the Next Generation – Doug discusses how he’s working to give his children realistic and grounded perspectives on success and character in the face of social media’s exaggerated narratives.
- Letting Go of Celebrity Ideals – Jeremy emphasizes the importance of shifting from idolizing fame to valuing authenticity, especially in relationships and fatherhood.
Featured Quotes
"Some of the best role models I’ve ever had were never on a screen—they were just quietly living good lives, showing up every day for the people around them."
Jeremy Axel
"I’d rather my kids admire someone who’s mastered their craft with humility than someone who’s famous just for being loud."
Doug Cox
Episode Transcript And Overview
In this episode of Never in Reverse, Doug and Jeremy explore how our understanding of role models changes as we grow—shifting from the celebrities and athletes of childhood to the authentic, everyday people who truly shape our character. They discuss the impact of media, the distortion of success online, and how to find and become role models in daily life. Whether you're raising kids, navigating adulthood, or simply reflecting on who you want to become, this episode invites you to look closer at the real role models around you.
Timeline Notes
Today’s episode is about unconventional role models, specifically as they relate to becoming a man and a father. Doug says that he looked up to athletes growing up and gravitated toward coaches as he got older.
Jeremy looked up to a close friend’s father growing up as he struggled to find calmness in his own home environment. In high school, Jeremy found role models in his coaches.
Jeremy suggests that the role models we are encouraged to follow on TV aren’t as useful as real-life role models, particularly family men.
Doug says that there are more influences on our children today than there were in his childhood in the age of social media.
Jeremy says that the content-driven landscape we live in can present distorted images of our role models, and sometimes over exaggerates small missteps.
Social media over exaggerates wealth, both in terms of its importance and the possibility that anyone can become wealthy. Doug is instilling a more realistic view of wealth in his children.
Doug finds inspiration in people who have worked hard to master their craft. He values authenticity in his role models over perfection.
Doug feels fortunate that he has a network of genuine and kindhearted people, both in his professional life and in his personal life.
Jeremy suggests letting go of the types of role models we have as children, specifically in the form of famous athletes or celebrities. Instead, you can find inspiration in your friendships.